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2007-11-26T07:46:00.000-08:00

Interview with Christie Cole Pearson

2007-11-26T07:45:00.000-08:00

CC-P, Christie Cole, is being interviewed for The Texas Beauty Shop, The Unofficial Miss Texas USA board. Talk about perfect timing. With Miss Texas Teen USA coming up, we have a celebrated titleholder who is willing to share her experience with all of us!

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Q. Hi Christie. How are you? Tell me about your earliest memory about pageantry, and what piqued your interest?

First, I just want to say that I appreciate you asking me to be interviewed for the Beauty Shop! I am doing quite well, thanks...just getting ready to be thrown into the Holidays. The Holidays for me be begin in October, and don't stop until the New Year! In between, we have Halloween, our Little-Man's Birthday, the Blood Drive for the Gulf Coast Regional Blood Center, Thanksgiving, Miss Texas Teen USA (my 10-year anniversary!!!), then the Mr.'s Birthday, a Christmas Eve Dinner Party (that I am hosting) w/ Santa, Christmas Day, New Years Eve/Day......By the New Year, I am spent! LOL

Okay, to get back on track...My earliest memory of pageantry was in the late 80's. Texas was THE Powerhouse, Christie Brinkley was THE FACE of the 80's and I wanted to be JUST like her! We also had the same name, so in my little world, that was a great omen!

My Mother was given some information on a few local pageants in Savannah, GA, and she asked me if I wanted to try them out. Being the attention hound, err, I mean "Only Child" I am (ya, I know...some things never change...), I jumped at the opportunity to "get noticed"!

Q. Tell me about your earliest pageant experiences? Did you win titles? What was it like getting used to being on stage?

When I was little, I entered the All American Miss Pageants (2nd Alternate, Prettiest Eyes, Prettiest Face), Fall Festival (Winner), Easter Dreams and Best Wishes (Winner).

We were always in ballroom without a stage. There was the "T" that was taped off with masking tape where the girls were to model and an "X" where we were to stop and pose for the judges.

My Mother had hand gestures that she and I would use to communicate with each other while I was competing...She would take her index finger and point right under her chin when she wanted me to stop looking down. She would point to her lips when she wanted me to smile, and when my smile began looking forced, she would take her fingers and pull her lips apart (to make a funny face), and make me laugh...She continued doing this throughout the years...even during the last pageant that she and I competed with each other at! She is the BEST!

Q. When you were younger, how did you prepare for a pageant?

As a child competing, my Mother and I would go and look for my dresses together. I remember my favorite was a red, short dress with white lace trim, and it had bells that jingled lightly when I walked! It was too cute!
I also practiced walking while balancing a book on my head, and singing "How Much is that Doggie in the Window", my talent song. Other than that, I was just told to play lightly a few weeks before the pageant so I would not have scabbed knees, and to make sure that I did not pull any lose teeth I may have had before the pageants!

Q. You entered Texas Teen USA the year that Christie Lee Woods competed. Tell me about your experience as Miss Houston Teen.

Actually, Christie was already Miss Teen USA when I began competing in the USA System in 1996. I remember being so enamored by her. During Orientation, I remember sitting in my chair just staring at her, thinking that she was just so beautiful! I was 14 years old, and about as green as they come! Then came the time to meet her, and I was afraid to go and say Hello. I know it sounds silly, but I remember her sitting there with her Miss Teen USA crown and sash on. She was so regal looking. I'll be honest, I was scared to meet her. When I finally did get enough nerve to meet her, I was star-struck! I still have the photo she signed for me!

My first experience at Miss Houston Teen USA was a bit overwhelming. It had been years since I competed as a child, and this was on a totally different playing field!
I got my competition wardrobe at T. Carolyn's. I remember trying on this beautiful teal green strapless evening gown with my Mom. I told her that I thought I needed a bigger size, that I couldn't get it zipped in the back by myself...This lady comes up to me and yanks my zipper up and says to me, "This is pageant's honey...it'll fit!" I swear I couldn't breathe, and when my Mother finally managed to unzip me, I almost fell out! We also bought a teal chiffon and sequin off the shoulder cocktail dress (that I also wore to my 8th grade dance. Oh yes, we got our money out of these dresses, that's for sure!). I wore a black one-piece swimsuit...sans "boob-pads" because we thought that would be inappropriate for a teen!

I had my hair stylist come to my Aunts hotel room, and he did my hair...TEXAS STYLE! You know the style..."The higher the hair, the closer to God". I totally rocked it!
This was when there was only a Top 10, and the girls received scores about their performance. I was 13th out of 81 girls. I had a lot of fun, and told my Mother that I wanted to do State!

Q. Describe the pageant experience and atmosphere at Miss Texas Teen USA, being on stage, and your placement. What was your experience like? Did you make any friends?

I had a wonderful time at State! I have always been the outgoing type, so I really enjoyed meeting girls from all over the state. Some of us clicked right away, others, not so much. There were girls that were genuinely nice, and others that tried to play mind games by asking things like, "Oh, your wearing that?" and then walk away.

Going in, I felt more comfortable because Miss Houston USA/ Teen USA is always held at that same hotel, and being familiar with my surroundings helped me to relax.
I changed a few things about my appearance and wardrobe. I lost my Texas Hair, and opted for soft curls. I changed my gown and cocktail dress. The swimsuits were provided for us, and I got a pink one-piece.

I was extremely satisfied with my performance. Andi was a doll, and her Mother was just as sweet!

I was lucky enough to make a few friends....I still talk with most of them on a pretty regular basis!

Q. The same year, Andria Mullins won, and you were her third runner-up. How did it feel as the girls were narrowed to fifteen, ten and five? Do you remember your final question?

I was amazed! I kept thinking to myself that I just needed to stay calm...and breathe. I was so impressed with myself because I knew that no matter where I placed, I had already done better than I did at Miss Houston Teen USA, and I was pleased with that.

Off the top of my head, I don't remember what my interview question was. I'd have to dig out my old tapes, but I'd be glad to let you know once I find out!

Q. The following year you competed at Houston again. How did you do? Did you win any awards?

I decided to compete again for Miss Houston Teen USA, and was the Swimsuit Winner (I was FLOORED!!!) and also a finalist for Photogenic and Evening Gown!

Stacy Ransom won that year, and I was her 2nd Runner up. I totally BLEW my Final Interview Question on stage! My question was something along the lines of "What would I change about today's youth", or something to that effect. I started out strong, but end the end, I wavered and trailed off, rambling about how "...education is very, very important." After I walked off the stage, my eyes began to well up because I knew that I had lost it.

Even though I did well overall, I was really disappointed that I didn't win. I didn't go into hysterics or anything, but it was a really long ride home. I was more disappointed in myself that I got too confident after I won the Swimsuit Award.

The old superstition was that if the girl won SS, she was sure to win the crown. I let that go to my head I think, and it hurt me.

Q. It sounds like you almost did not go to state that year to compete. What changed your mind?

I was a bit disappointed after Miss Houston Teen USA. This was my third pageant (second at State), and I was having a difficult time getting sponsors, so that had me discouraged. I had my entry fee covered, but that was about it, and I knew I needed a new competition wardrobe, but I also knew that getting the sponsors for it was proving to be impossible!

Then, something in me changed, and I really began to focus on what I wanted. I started to actually visualize my goals, and do what I could to prepare!

Q. I hear you trained with Amanda Little's mom that year. What kind of preparation was required of you?

Because of the distance, Susan and I would phone once a week and she would help me with my interview. She taught me about the different kinds of questions, and how to read the judges.

When I went to Dallas to visit her, we worked on my on-stage presentation.

I cannot say enough great things about Susan Little! She was my mentor, and a great friend! Susan sacrificed so much for me, and I know that I will never be able to repay her for her kindness and generosity.

Q. What does it feel like being out on that stage in front of everyone?

It's very much a rush! I don't get nervous, until right before I get on stage, and then once I am there, and all eyes are on me, I am in my element!

Q. At Texas Teen, I know you were called near the end of the top 15. Was that nerve wracking?

I actually thought that I wouldn't make the Semi's that year. I was listening to who they called out, and I remember counting the spots. When they called the 10th spot, I started to get nervous. Then they got to 13, and I thought I was out for sure! I was the last girl to be called into the Semi-Finals!

During the competition, I remember feeling so relaxed, and glad that I was there! I knew that I had done my best to prepare, and it was all in God's hands.

Q. When you competed at Texas Teen and it was just you and Stacy at the end, what was that like? Were the two of you close?

It was very tense. We did not hold each others hands like most of the Final Two often do. I was told that in the end, half the audience was rooting for Stacy, and the other half was rooting for me, so the suspense was thick in the air! I just remember that it seemed like we were standing there forever, and it was silent...no talking, no music...just dead silence.

Stacy and I only knew each other because of the pageants. She was a few years older than I was, and we went to different schools.

Q. When you won, I hear you jumped nearly six feet in the air! LOL

Yes...You know, it's funny, but I can still remember standing there with Stacy, and all I could think about was how dark it was up there. This probably won't make any sense, but the lights were really bright on the stage, but I could not see anyone in the audience. I felt like I was dreaming, so I kept trying to look past the lights...past the audience.... to where the mirrors are in the back of the ballroom so I could watch what was happening. Somehow, watching made things seem more real.

After Dan did his thing, you know, the speech about how important the 1st Runner Up is....nearly giving me a heart attack! My heart was racing. I remember looking up, saying a little prayer, and then I hear Dan say, "...and the first runner up is....Miss Houston! Miss Southeast Texas, Christie Cole! Christie Cole, you're our new Miss Teen U...err Miss Texas Teen USA!" (I still get excited when I say those words!)

I can honestly say that I did not have any control over myself when I jumped...I just remember that all of my excitement just sort of burst, and came out in a two-foot vertical!

Q. How did you prepare for being on a national stage? Did you have a strict nutrition and workout regimen?

It didn't click for me and my family that I had just won the big one! We knew that this was the USA system, and we knew that I would be competing at Miss Teen USA, but for the longest time, it just didn't register for us!

I started running and working out a lot. I began training with my sponsors, and was put on a new diet...I am sure you all know the one...tuna, egg whites, oatmeal, fruit, etc.

I worked a lot with my sponsors, and we changed a few things about my appearance (hair, teeth, style), and also made more appearances to help with my public speaking abilities.

Q. How do you prepare for each phase of competition, swim suit, evening gown and interview?

In addition to the sponsor-provided training I was awarded, I received private coaching, and trained individually. The primary reason for the minimal training was so I didn't come across as being "over-coached". We mostly worked on my confidence because we knew that if I was confident (not cocky) everything else would fall right into place!

Q. How do you choose your gown? Why is this important?

My gown, to me, was very important. I had worked on designing it for months. I wanted it to reflect my personality, to make sure that color complimented my tone, but most importantly, I wanted to make sure I stood out so people (the judges) would remember me.

I got a little scared before Miss Teen USA because my dress wasn't ready until the DAY before I was to leave for Shreveport! It was just a smidgen too long, so while we were there, my Mother found a store that sold higher heels than what I brought with me. So I had about three days to teach myself how to walk in 5 INCH HEELS right before Finals! I think I only fell once...It all worked out!

Q. How do you prepare for walking in swim suit in heels?

I would practice walking up and down the stairs at my house in heels (I only stumbled twice!), and would even go and check the mail in them! I got really good, really fast!
I also learned that the "Jello" I had on the inside of my legs doesn't wiggle as much when I wore heels, so Heels and I became FAST friends!!! LOL!

Q. When you were called into the semifinals at Teen USA, what was going through your mind?

I was praying to God that he grant me the opportunity to advance, it's a selfish prayer, I know, but I was there for a reason. I wanted to make Texas proud of me, but more than that, I wanted to be on television, and I wanted to get something tangible from my experience there! Those were my goals.

I had a rough time in high school, as I am sure most girls who compete do. The girls absolutely hated me, and I liked giving them reasons to hate me! I also knew that if I didn't do well at Teen USA, I would never hear the end of it. I know that sounds horrible, but I wasn't well liked in school for many reasons, and the majority of them was because I didn't conform to their standards. I didn't have cliques, I hung out with everyone! I didn't make friends for social status, I made friends with people who had good hearts, and liked me for being the person I was on the inside...not because of what I was, or the title I held.

Q. You came so close to making the top 5. Many thought you were robbed. Did you realize how close you came at the time?

At that moment in time, no. I do remember briefly thinking to my self as I looked at the Top 5 that I came in 6th.

After we all went backstage, I cried a little. Not too much, but I have to admit, it is very emotionally draining on a girl. While you are there, it is a bunch of rush, rush....wait. When all is said and done, being able to let go and shed a few tears was sort of cleansing.

After that, I hung out with the guys from N'Sync, brushed out my hair, touched up my make-up, and just had fun with the ladies back stage! From then on, the pressure was gone, and I could have fun!

The Coronation Ball was a blast! We danced, congratulated the Semi-Finalists, the Top 5, Vanessa, and signed autographs. All my family was there. It was a really special time!

It wasn't until we came home that we were able to watch the telecast and figure out my exact placement. I was 1/100th of a point away from advancing to the Top 5! The pageant was the second in history to not be broadcast live.
President Clinton got himself into some legal troubles, and as a result, the Miss Teen USA pageant aired on a tape-delay rather than on a live telecast.

Q. Did you know Vanessa was such a huge favorite that year? Did you make friends? What were the other girls like? Do you keep in touch with any of the contestants?

Actually, no. I didn't know that she was a favorite to win. The girls were great! I am sure I don't have to explain what happens when you throw 51 teenage beauty queens together for two weeks! We all had our "moments" that weren't our best, but that is life, and you just can't please everyone!

All in all I feel confident is saying that my experience in Shreveport was nothing short of amazing. I met a few really super girls there that I still keep in touch with, and feel blessed to have been able to share my experience with all of them!

Q. After teen, I know you competed in other pageants before Texas USA. Can you tell me what those pageants were like? How did they differ than Teen USA?

I competed in the Sunburst, America, Teenage Texas, Texas United States Teen, Lyon's Club, and Cinderella Pageants. I have to be honest here. I have not participated in another pageant system that remotely comes close to the stellar production put on by Al and Gail. Trust me when I tell you that this system spoils a girl!

Q. What were your placements?

I always did really well. I won some, was a runner up in others, and received numerous awards, like: Best in Swimsuit, Prettiest Face, Prettiest Dress, Best in Interview, and scholarship money.

Q. Did you have any bad experiences competing?

I wouldn't say that I have had "Bad Experiences". I can say that some were definitely more enjoyable than others.

Q. Tell me about your experiences competing for Miss Texas. I hear you won Congeniality one year.

I competed for Miss Houston USA 2001. I was absolutely thrilled to have placed in the Semi-Finals!
Personally, I felt as though Dan was a bit harder on me than most of the other Semi-Finalists during the On-Stage Interview. Because I am an Army Brat, I was asked questions about the military, and my thoughts on our troops (pre-9/11). Being the person I am, and where I come from, I couldn't lie about where I stand on this issue...Not even for a pageant. Without getting into specifics (or debating the issue) my viewpoints differ from the majority of civilians, and I have my reasons. I will say that I whole-heartily support our troops. I believe that our freedom comes with a price, and many men and women pay with their lives every day to ensure we all maintain the freedoms we so very often take for granted.

To make a long story short, I did not advance to the Finals, however, I was was voted Miss Photogenic, and nominated by the other contestants as Miss Congeniality! It was truly an honor!

Because I made the Semi's at Houston, I was invited to compete at the 2001 Miss Texas USA pageant in Lubbock as Miss Bayou City.

Q. I know you were really ill during your last year competing at Texas USA. Can you tell me a little about that?

Yes, I fell ill during my Summer Semester in College, and had to drop out, quit my job, and move back home. I went to four different doctors over the course of about a month before I was finally sent to a specialist who performed emergency surgery on my large intestine. (I will spare you the specifics, but I will say that the doctor told me that if I had waited to do the surgery, I would have fallen into a coma due to all the blood I was passing.) I had to undergo a battery of testing to rule out other illnesses such as IBS, Colon Cancer, Endometriosis, and Ovarian Cancer. As part of my treatment to get me into remission, I was placed on medication that resulted is a massive weight gain (and b*tchiness!), new diet that was loaded with carbs, and a stress management program.

Basically, I was not allowed to eat anything red, nothing with seeds, which included fruits and vegetables, no nuts of any kind, nothing fried or greasy, and nothing with spice.

This was a very frustrating and depressing time for me.

I had already paid my entry fee to compete for Miss Texas USA (the year Kasi Kelly won) prior to getting sick, and was told that I would not get a refund if I did not compete.

After much deliberation, I made the decision to compete, with the understanding that I would merely be getting my feet wet. I knew going to Lubbock that I was not competition ready, but I wanted to go anyway because it was something I already committed to do, and it would not be fair to my sponsors if I didn't show up at all.

Q. It sounds like the medication did not allow you to compete at your highest level. What was it like to hear negative comments from other competitors and directors knowing that it was out of your control?

I am not going to lie to you. It was very hard on me and very hurtful! Rather than dwell on the negative side of the situation, I decided to use this as an opportunity of personal growth. I took the time I needed to figure out who I was again, focus on my health, and enjoy my life!

Q. How is your health now?

I am very happy to say that I have been in remission for over six years now!

Q. What made you stop competing for Texas USA?

There were many factors that aided in my decision to not compete anymore. I suppose if I had to pin-point a reason, it would be that competing was no longer for me.
I decided to focus other things, go back to school, and find my place in the world.

Q. I hear you went back to school after that to pursue your degree. Where did you attend, and what did you study?
I went to "The University of Tomball" (NHMCCD, it's not really a University, but that was the ongoing joke amongst the students) for a few years, then I attended Central Texas College. I studied Business Management/Marketing.

Q. What kind of job did you settle on?
After I went to college, I still didn't know what I wanted to be when I grew up. I believe that it is a lot to ask of a young, 20-something individual to know what they want to do with the rest of their lives. I most certainly didn't know, and I was having trouble with this because I am a bit of a control freak.

Proverbs 19:21 says, "Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the Lord's purpose that prevails." That statement could not ring more true!

After Miss Texas USA, I got a job at a BMW dealership, and began saving some money. I was engaged to marry my high-school sweetheart, but God had a different plan for me...

I met my husband, Jack, while working at the dealership in the latter part of 2001. It was the most amazing feeling, EVER, when I realized that I was going to spend my life with this man!
We were standing outside the side entrance doors to the dealership, and as we were talking, I saw my life flash before my eyes...Like an out-of-body experience! I saw the two of us getting married, having a baby, and growing old together! I never experienced this feeling with my (then) fiance, so I knew that I had to follow my heart! It truly was the best decision I ever made!

Q. And then you got married and had a baby? It sounds like you feel fulfilled.
Absolutely! Jack and I took a month (January 2002) off from seeing each other so that we could "cut our loose ends", so to speak. It was important for us to start our relationship off the right way.

We took a giant leap, and I moved from my parents house in Tomball, into an apartment in Montrose on February 11, 2002.
Jack proposed to me that November.
We announced our Engagement to our family and friends just before Thanksgiving.
We decided to have a small outdoor, sun-set wedding ceremony that was held in the Garden at Vargo's in Houston in May. I believe there were about 120 guests total.
We welcomed a beautiful baby boy (Jackson Alexander Pearson) later that Fall.

Q. I know you also competed as a married woman. What pageants did you compete in and how did you do?
In 2005, both my Mother and I competed at the Mrs. Texas United America Pageant that was held in Austin. She was Mrs. Tomball, and I was Mrs. Southeast Texas. I placed in the Top 8. Unfortunately, my Mother did not place, though I had hoped she would. It was a wonderful bonding experience for the both of us. I had a blast helping her learn how to walk and utilize the runway, and choreographing a modeling routine for the Sportswear Competition for her! She was a HOOT, and she did really, really well! I am very proud of her!

Q. I know you started a business called Custom Crown Cases. Can you tell me about that and what and how you are doing? How can titleholders and directors contact you if they are interested in one of your cases?
In December of 2005, I started my business. The pageant that both my Mother and I competed in did not provide storage for our tiaras and sashes. As much as I love pageants, I simply could not fathom having my tiara and sash on display somewhere in my home just out in the open, so I created carrying cases for my Mother and I so we could store and protect our "Crowned Jewels" from curious babies, husbands, and pirates! LOL!

The business is going great. We aren't getting rich by any means, and I'm not planning on retirement anytime soon, but I stay pretty busy with it.
I am a sponsor for several pageant systems, and I won't say which State, BUT, there is a young woman from TEXAS who will be sporting a Custom Crown Case at Miss USA this year!!!!

If anyone is interested in purchasing a Custom Crown Case, please feel free to contact me directly at christiempearson@yahoo.com (please put CUSTOM CROWN CASES in the subject line) or you may visit my website at www.customcrowncase.bravehost.com

Q. What are the upsides to being in pageants?
I have always taken something away from competition. I have used the experience as a stepping stone for personal improvement.

Pageants have helped girls gain the self-confidence, and poise that just can't be taught outside of the pageant-world.

The interview skills I have learned have been the single most important lesson I have taken with me throughout the years, and will continue to use for the rest of my life!

Q. What do you think the down sides are to being in pageants?
I am sure if we all sat down and really put our heads together, we could come up with down sides to most anything.

People compete in pageants for experience, for personal growth, and for the love of the game.

Again, pageants are an expensive hobby, and getting sponsors is not easy feat either! They help to "thicken ones skin", so to speak, because there is a lot of cattiness, and poor sportsmanship.
Pageants, in my opinion, teach important life-lessons, that are sometimes a little hard to learn, but I believe they are important for young girls to be exposed to.

Q. What is the most important advice you can give to pageant contestants?
There are so many cliche answers to this question.

All I can really say to a contestant is that she really needs to try to know herself before she competes. Competing will not help you to figure out who you are, but rather help to shape who you can become.
Should you win, your year is filled with opportunities for personal growth, and different types of exposure, and once you channel in on where you want that to go, networking and making contacts is much easier.
It is also important for you to know where you stand on issues, political and otherwise. There aren't any right or wrong answers because they are YOUR answers. This is how you set yourself apart from the typical "Cookie-Cutter" image of other competitors.

Pageants aren't about wearing a sparkly crown, and being a titleholder for a year. It is your JOB as said titleholder to promote your pageant and it's sponsors, as well as taking on an active role in your community.

Q. Do you have any parting words to add?
I would just like to take this opportunity to thank you for this interview, to my "fans" (I am trying hard not to sound pageant-y), it is because of all of you that my love for pageantry grows on a daily basis, and probably the biggest reason of all that I decided to open Custom Crown Cases.
It truly was an honor to represent our great state, and it warms my heart to know that I have made (and continue to make) you all proud. I am blessed to have such an amazing "Pageant Family"!

Thanks Christie for your time and for your contributions. You will always be a very popular titleholder. We always welcome your input.

Pictures of Allison Seale

2007-10-10T06:34:00.001-07:00

Interview with Allison Seale

2007-10-10T06:33:00.000-07:00

SanFranGuy is getting all misty eyed. I can get star struck, but that is not what is happening here. Allison Seale, Miss Austin USA 2007, has competed her final pageant as an eligible contestant. People have the perception that beauty queens are all about outward packaging, though we know this is not always the case. Allison will go down in pageant history as an historical delegate, from the choice of her gowns, to her swimsuit physique, many awards, excellent interview skills, and her ability to prepare and consistently do well, even though she is petite. This is where the public audience is able to delineate between just a gorgeous girl and one who has tremendous depth. Before I get to the interview, I want to point out a few more things: Allison has completed college, having made it a point to value education; she works full time and has a mortgage: responsibilities that enable her to not be just another cookie cut Pageant Patty. She has a tremendous support system, makes many public appearances, as other title holders often do, adores her pets, job, is funny, smart, interesting, and to top it off, she is a fierce competitor who gave it her all. She will be missed.

Q. Allison, when do you remember watching your first pageant, and do you remember many memorable reactions to the experience?

I can still remember watching one of the greats…Stacy Outhouse. I wasn’t a competitor at that time and I only remember her name because of its uniqueness, but I will never forget her beauty and how much I thought she was robbed! I can even remember sitting around the television with my mom and her saying from the beginning that Stacy would win…looking back on that experience it’s really weird that my mom knew so much about her. From the fact that she had competed numerous times down to the fact that she had been runner up before. I guess my mom was a “pageant mom” in the making and didn’t even realize it!

Q. What was the first pageant you competed in? What was the theme? Did you place, and what made you want to compete!

My first pageant ever was not a part of the USA system, but it was called Miss Round Rock Youth pageant. There were several different ages ranging from the Wee level to Teen…I was 14 years old and therefore a Teen. I decided to compete because the director had recruited at my high school and my best friend was Miss Austin Teen USA. It was so strange…there was no theme, but there was interview, sports wear, and evening gown competition. Now I have to describe my outfits for each, because anyone competing in the 90s will appreciate them and anyone who has liked my style in the past will be SHOCKED!!! Anyone who has spent thousands on photo shoots will be stunned at my “official” headshot.

Interview: Ivory colored jumper with forest green floral print and a t-shirt underneath. I was wearing beige socks that you could pull up to your knees if wanted, but I slouched mine…then to top it off I was wearing Doc Martins…the kind that you just slipped into with a buckle over the top. My mom told me I looked so cute!!!

Sports wear: Equestrian Horseback riding outfit accompanied with the crop (whip), helmet, and all.

Evening gown: A short, forest green, velvet, with puffy sleeves dress. I wore 1 inch black shoes and thankfully my best friend who was Austin Teen at the time let me borrow her gorgeous crystal earrings…she told me they would bring me luck. Looking back I needed more than luck! In addition, my dad was my escort.

My “official” photo was taken by my mom in front of the bathroom door at our house…glamorous, I know!

Believe it or not, even with the atrocious attire and terrible photo I guess the earrings were lucky after all. I won the pageant and was Miss Round Rock Teen for the next year.

Q. Who inspired you, besides your Mom of course, and what led you to compete at Miss Texas Teen USA? How did you approach these competitions from your previous preparations? How was this pageant different from others?

Besides my mom, I’d have to say my best friend Brandy Nace, Miss Austin Teen USA 1996 inspired me. She encouraged me to enter my first pageant telling me that I would gain so much. I had never thought of competing and didn’t think of myself as a pageant girl, however I didn’t have low self esteem, I just hadn’t thought of it really. I decided to compete at Texas Teen after I had finished my reign as Miss Round Rock Teen and after I had competed in the Miss Austin Teen USA pageant for the first time. As a Teen I really had no idea what I was doing. I always designed my own gowns and had a local seamstress make them for me. My very first year at Texas Teen my evening gown cost $150 and my interview suit I copied from a Victoria’s Secret catalogue and cost about the same as the evening gown. My mom got out really cheap compared to what was in store for her in the future…LOL! I didn’t really prepare…I mean I did all my paperwork and got my wardrobe ready, but I was always very tiny and was fortunate in not having to work out. I had never heard of Julie Phillips or Elizabeth Anthony and didn’t have the faintest idea as to what an interview coach entailed. I learned how to walk and model from watching other contestants. I would watch the girls that consistently did well and just try to copy them. Texas Teen was a whole new world!!! My mom and I got there on Thanksgiving day and I of course had an outfit for EVERYthing. I thought I was in good shape until arrival day…everyone was so beautiful and everyone that I remember had on very expensive looking outfits. I’m so glad that as a Miss competitor all I had to worry about on arrival day was jeans and a shirt…it saved me tons of money in that department! That first year at Miss Texas Teen really shaped me for my upcoming Teen pageants.

Q. What were your best placements at Texas Teen USA? What awards did you win including the ones you received in preliminaries?

I only competed at Texas Teen twice before I aged out and both years I made the top 15…even with a $150 dress. The second year I stepped it up and paid $300 for my gown. I never won any preliminary awards as a teen. Again, I really didn’t know what I was doing, but believe me, I thought I did!

Q, What was your favorite year when competing at Teen, Did you make many friends? If so, who?

My favorite year was probably my final year at Texas Teen in 1999…Christy Cole won. It was the first year that I developed a bit of an ego and the first time that I really had confidence. I had always placed or made the first cut as a teen and it was the first year that I was excited to go out there and strut my stuff. I must say that as a Teen, if anyone remembers me, I didn’t make friends very easily. I believe I had an heir air of confidence that could have been mistaken for arrogance; however, I wanted to win and wasn’t there to make friends. It never surprised me that I didn’t win the congeniality award and I usually just kept to myself. I did however meet a few contestants that later would become great friends of mine.

Q. Before entering Miss Texas USA, you sat out a year to compete for Miss Petite Texas, am I right? Tell me more about how this pageant was conducted, Pros? Cons?

I did sit out of the USA system for a couple of years after I aged out of Teen. I was still eligible for the Miss Petite Teen division and just didn’t feel quite ready to move on to the Miss level. I have always had a very youthful look with being petite and all and it just seemed like the best alternative. For the most part it was conducted similarly to Texas Teen USA, however swimsuit was replaced with sportswear. The pro was that there were far less contestants! I had a much better shot at actually winning compared to what I had experienced as a Teen in the USA system, which was runner up after runner up after runner up. The cons were that it didn’t have as much recognition as Miss Texas Teen USA and there weren’t as many contestants. If you win you want to know you won competing against the best and with less contestants that just isn’t the case. And while all of the girls were so gorgeous there were only 15 to 20 of us.

Q. When you won Miss Petite Texas, tell me about the process of the girls who made it at the international level? What was it like to work with international pageant girls, and who did you feel was your biggest competition?

This was actually my least favorite pageant experience. The way that this pageant worked was anyone could go to the international level. Because it was such a small system you could “buy” your title. And while I had won mine and many of the other contestants had too, there were some there that maybe had ties to Spain or Oklahoma, but were from Texas and they would in essence be that title for that pageant. Some girls were from other countries and it was interesting to try and communicate with the girls from Brazil and the Dominican Republic…I basically didn’t. At the time of the competition I was 19 years old, working full time, in college, and living by myself in an apartment with bills to pay…I was at a totally different place in life than the other Teen contestants. I basically just hung out with Ashley Doughtie who had crowned me as Miss Petite Teen Texas and was the reigning Miss Petite Teen International. Even with a 4-5 year age difference, Ashley has such an infectious sense of humor and I loved being around her. All of this created a lot of tension between me and the other Teen contestants. They began saying I was anorexic, yaddy, yaddy, yada and this was the first time that my mom had a bad experience with other moms. My biggest competition was Miss Petite Teen Georgia. She was your typical Georgian with dimples, long blonde hair, and modeling that I had NEVER seen. Now that I know a little about the “kiddie” pageants, that was how she modeled. At the end, I pulled it out and was crowned Miss Petite Teen International…And no, I’m not nor have I ever been anorexic. If anyone knows me they know I love my fine cuisine!!

Q, How did it feel to win the International Petite title? And what do you have to say about women who feel they are too petite to compete at competitions like Miss USA?

I was so excited to win the title of Miss Petite Teen International, but not nearly as excited as I was when I won Miss Austin USA!!! I would love to be able to tell women that being petite doesn’t hinder you, but that would be a lie. On the flip side of that, we all have different issues that hinder us for whatever reason and it’s about putting the focus on other things that you have to offer. I couldn’t offer that tall model look regardless how high my heels were and while I am 5’4 and have seen many girls go on to do well, ie. Nicole O” Brian, Andria Mullins, Chelsea Cooley, Tara Connor, etc. etc., I knew that I still had to battle my tiny frame. Not only am I vertically challenged, but I’m just tiny all over. So instead I tried to have great style, I worked out very hard with personal trainers, met with an interview coach more times than I can count, and tried to be the best that I could be. You are only as small as you believe. On the outside I may look like a kitten, but on the inside I feel like a lion! And that’s what you have to believe to be successful in life not just pageants.

Q. Do you feel that you personally have been underscored as a result of being more petite than the glamazons who often win? What would you tell other petite women to help them feel more encouraged, and what do you think the organization needs to do in order to get more variety in their competitors?

I would like to hope that I haven’t been underscored because I am more petite, but I think naturally the eye is drawn to women that are tall such as Cassandra Meyer, Crystle Stewart, Lindsay Harvey, just to name a few. Not to discount their beauty, because I admire them all, but they have the tall thing going for them that I will never have. I can only hope that when judges were making their selections they were focused on someone who could go to Miss USA and kick some booty and I hope that they remembered that a great representative didn’t have to be 5’7 or plus. I have never looked at ANY winner and thought they didn’t deserve their win. It just wasn’t my night. I think I would tell petite women that old cliché of big things come in small packages. Again, the height thing just really doesn’t matter anymore. We should be looking for women that embody class, integrity, elegance, natural beauty (I’m over the whole caked on makeup thing with huge hair sprayed hair), poise, and the list goes on and on. And let’s face it…those qualities come in more than just tall individuals. To answer the last part of the question, I think we definitely have variety in our contestants. It’s just about getting out of the mindset that USA/The Donald are looking for model type girls. Who is to say I’m not a model type anyway…I mean I may be good for only print modeling, but STILL that’s modeling! And that goes not for just me, but any of the girls that might not be the tallest or the thinnest.

Q. After your stint as Miss Petite Teen International, I know you took time off before competing at Texas so that education was your priority. Tell me about what you studied in college and the entire college experience. What did you major in, and what were your best memories?

I took about another year off from competing after I gave up my title as Miss Petite Teen International and focused on school. When I first graduated high school I decided to start working full time and move out from my mom’s house and be what I thought was an adult. It wasn’t until I started to juggle school and work that I realized it was really really difficult. So I decided to move back home after a couple of years and focus on getting into the University of Texas. By the time I actually started at UT I was 21 years old. I got an apartment down by campus and downtown (6th street), which we all know is really exciting as a 21 year old and had a lot of fun going to school with 50,000 other college students. I met one of my closest friends who attends EVERY pageant and screams almost as loud as my biggest fan, my sister. I majored in English and minored in Government…I was basically ready to get out of school as quickly as possible. I was very behind everyone else due to the fact that I was working for two years out of high school and not accomplishing much school. I joke that I was on the 6 year plan, but hey at least I finished! It’s funny though…I couldn’t wait to get out, but now that I’m finished I can’t wait to go back for graduate school. My best memories of college were walking around campus and thinking of how historical everything was. Sure I had fun hanging out on the weekends and all of my classes were intellectually stimulating, but hearing the UT tower bells still makes me feel so proud to have been a part of something so much bigger than me. That is what I miss about college.

Q. Since you did graduate from college, what would you stress to other girls competing, and Donald Trump's decision to keep interview out of the one of the major categories at Miss USA? What kind of message do you think this sends to competitors and to women in general?

College is definitely not for everyone and it was absolutely not for me, but I’m the type of person that once I start something I will do everything to finish it. Being that my mom is a school teacher I value education very much and have found that I really respect those that have stuck it out, but I don’t think that having an education can make you a good interviewer. Education and all, interview has always been a struggle for me. I’ve always been fine one on one…it’s those darn on stage interviews that freak me out. I don’t know if it’s the microphone that startles me or the fact that hundreds of people are watching, but inevitably I usually screw up onstage interview. I could have strangled myself after Miss Austin USA interviews when I realized that I started out both the onstage interviews with, “Gosh.” But even with onstage interview being my least favorite stage of competition, I still feel strongly that it should remain. I think it sends the message to the contestants that we need a well rounded representative and encourages them to work on life long skills, not just skills that will help them win Miss whatever. Miss USA continues to have low ratings and I think the reason is that most women don’t want to watch girls in their early 20s who appear to have no substance prance around on a stage…and lets face it, most women dictate what’s being watched in households. Interview has always been mine and my mom’s favorite to watch. It may not be either of our favorites when it comes to me, but it’s the best part to watch. You can either think to yourself, “wow that was an incredible answer” or “oooh, she botched that one.” Your favorite usually changes after interview…and that’s real tv.

Q. Tell me more about your experiences at competing at Miss Texas USA, your accomplishments, the years you enjoyed the most, whether it was placement or the community created. How did you feel about your placements?

Ok…this is a long one! I competed four times at Miss Texas USA and every year was a great experience. My first year I was kind of on my high horse and basically just expected to make the top 20, because as I mentioned earlier I never didn’t make the first cut. Wow…Was I disappointed! My first year I didn’t make the semi finals and I couldn’t figure out why. I still don’t have the answer…I guess I felt like I shined more than I actually did…LOL! It did however teach me so much and clearly I had tons of fun that I came back for more torture with Kent Parham J My second year I prepared harder than ever and was ecstatic with my placement. I made the top 10 that year and both of my reactions were very genuine…I was shocked. My third year I worked just as hard if not harder than the previous year and made the top 15. Top 5 would have been nice…ok, real nice, but it didn’t happen and I thought the girls that made it over me were very deserving. My fourth year almost didn’t happen. I knew I was aging out and I just couldn’t decide if I really wanted to not win Miss Austin USA for a 4th time and then be told that I was too old not to try again. I had an internal battle and thought to myself that it would be much better to not win Miss Austin USA because of MY decision not 5 other people’s opinion of me. But then I came to my senses and realized that I definitely couldn’t win if I didn’t at least try. My final year competing for Miss Austin USA I really didn’t prepare too much. I tried working out all the time and it was just too difficult to work and then have it in me to go to the gym for an hour and a half. In terms of interview, I figured at 25 I either had it or I didn’t. And for my dress I was content wearing my dress from Miss Texas the year before. That was until I went to pick it up from my favorite boutique, St. Thomas from being steamed. I just don’t have it in me to wear the same thing twice…when it comes to pageants of course. I purchased my least expensive gown as a Miss the morning of preliminaries and luckily it needed only a hemming. I’ve never been as happy as I was the night I won Miss Austin USA with any placement. I wasn’t sure if it would be my night and when it came down to Lacie Weatherford and me I really didn’t know. I’ve become accustomed to hearing my name called out as a runner up so I was really prepared for that again, but it FINALLY happened and I won. My final year at Miss Texas USA was very different from the others. Like many contestants my mom purchased a little book for me called “The Secret.” I guess it really isn’t a secret though, because everyone had it with them in Laredo. I worked with Nicole O’Brian on something that everyone complained about and that was slowing down. I felt like I was in slow motion working with her, but I guess that’s what I needed. I envisioned…I believed I was already Miss Texas USA…I could feel it…I could see it. I did all the things right and I am so happy with how I did. Sure I was disappointed because when you believe you are already Miss Texas USA and then you see someone else actually achieving it, it kind of stinks. BUT, I love Crystle to death and couldn’t be happier for her. I know I did my very best and that is enough for me. Do I feel like I deserved a higher placement? Yes! It happens and then you move forward. I’m only 26 and I have so much more of a life to live…pageants were just the beginning. This was by far my favorite year…I was excited to see what laid ahead of me outside of what I call “pageant land.”

Q. What is it like for you as a competitor competing with various different women? Did you make many close friends? Were there some girls who were almost too competitive? Were their girls who were too intense and unfriendly? And what about the girls who would give you the earrings off their lobes?

It wasn’t until I was older that I really started to develop friendships with my fellow competitors. I can’t begin to tell you how high of a percentage my friends are on Myspace that are pageant girls. Most I know and some I don’t, but there are a lot on there! My closest relationship that I developed from pageants has been with someone that I actually competed with as a Teen, Julia Salmon. Such a class act! There was nothing more joyous than standing on stage with her the night of Miss Texas USA and walking off the stage together after the top 5 was called…we just put our arms around each other, and walked side by side with our heads together…I know I had tears…she’s a little stronger than me or at least she hid them well. I have developed many additional close friends from competing as well…my phone book consists of many fierce competitors. I really haven’t come across many girls that I didn’t genuinely want to be around…I joke that I wish I could come back to Miss Texas USA next year just to hang out with everyone. It’s kind of like camp…and I will really miss everyone. I would say that most of the people I hung out with during the week at Miss Texas USA would let me borrow just about anything that was within reason and help me out with a zipper, makeup, and such. I had to borrow a curling iron on finals this year and I asked just about everyone. Either the barrel was too small or too big, but Blaire’s (Miss Lake Whitney’s) was perfect! I’ve been lucky to meet such amazing women.

Q. How do you prepare for each stage of competition? Are you rigid in your nutrition and workouts?

I have always been very rigid with what I eat and how hard I work out. I’ve been fortunate to always have a personal trainer and I guess I’ve been genetically fortunate as well. While I try to eat right ALL the time, I’m able to sneak some carbs and chocolate in there as well. I definitely believe in trainers for every category. Sometimes it truly helps you out and sometimes it’s just mental. As my mom always told me, your mental state of mind is sometimes more important than your physical state.

Q. Do you think pageants portray negative stereotypes on beautiful girls?

No, not at all. If anything, I think the media has created negative stereotypes on beautiful girls. Magazine and television advertisements have created such an unrealistic image of what women think they are supposed to look like, dress, and how they should even act. Pageants have their stereotypes as well, but every person that I have ever met usually tells me after meeting me that they have a different perception of pageants after talking with me. I think that pageant girls are able to shed a different light on what we are all about and what we do versus watching the show on tv. I wish that more people could see what the organization is supposed to be all about instead of what has been transpiring lately.

Q. One thing I have always appreciated is your sense of style. How do you go about picking a gown from color to fit?

First and foremost, THANK YOU!!!! We all know how expensive the gowns can be so I appreciate your positive words…my mom does too J Most people that know me well know that I have a ton of gowns…a new one every year and even though I always tell my mom that the one we buy for Austin I will wear to Texas, it just never works out that way. I’ve always really liked lighter colors such as white, silver, gold, etc. and in terms of fit it’s always been necessary to find something that elongates me. This year we tried to step out of the box and do something different. My mom and my director, Betty has always seen me in red. And for me I wanted something that I could envision on the Miss USA stage. The owner of St. Thomas had shown me the dress before Miss Austin USA to wear then, but turns out Miss Louisiana USA was planning on wearing it to Miss USA so we had to hold off. I loved my dress so much and still feel like it was the perfect choice for me. I wouldn’t have changed anything about it.

Q. Do you think that white gowns are on the way out? What inspires you to choose certain colors?

YES!!!!!!!! We’ve already seen so much color lately that I think it proves girls are realizing they don’t have to be in white to win. I still love white though…it makes me look tanner. Nothing has ever really inspired me when picking out a color. If it looks good and I feel good, then it’s the one.

Q. Are you going to continue to work in the pageant industry on any level, whether it be about judging or sharing your knowledge?

I’d love to! I know Betty Warner and I will always be close and as long as there is still a pageant I know I will be a part of it…I’m addicted to that woman! I love judging pageants because I know what the girls are going through. I may appear a little tough during interview, but really I’m a total softy.

Q. Who was your mentor when you started competing, and who besides those who prepare you for pageants do you admire the most?

I would always talk to Brandy Nace about competing, but I really just looked up to the girls that were competing. There was no one specific person. I loved watching Holly Mills, Heather Ogilvie, and Kandace Krueger just to name a few and I admire anyone who comes back year after year after year.

Q. What do you think about raising the age of eligibility for competing?

I think it would be great…I still can’t believe at the ripe age of 26 I’m finished. I think that other women besides me have even more to offer after the age of 26. Maybe nothing crazy…29? On the other hand though, I wouldn’t compete again if it were raised. Mentally the chapter has been closed and I’m just happy to be Miss Austin USA for the rest of 2007.

Q. Off subject, tell me about your pooch. So adorable!

Ha ha ha!! I actually have two pooches…Chanel, my teacup Chihuahua and Rigby who is an American Bulldog. Chanel is 3 ½ years old weighing 3-4 lbs and Rigby will be a year in November weighing 85 lbs now and will probably put on at least another 15. I think they are precious, but it’s nice to know someone else thinks so too.

Q. Who did you bond with most while competing, and do you think these are friendships that will last?

Again, that award goes to Julia Salmon. I know it will last…we try to have dinner at least once a month and she’s someone that when the time comes, I will ask to be in my wedding…I just adore her!

Q. Where do you see yourself in five years?

I hope in 5 years I’m at least on my way to completing my Masters…and I really would like to be married. I hate to put a time frame and age on marriage, but I really do! No kids though! Not 5 years from now at least. I hate to say what I hope I’m doing career wise, because I’ve learned that even when you are doing exactly what you think you want, there is still something you dislike about it. I’ve always had my eyes set on public relations so maybe something in that arena.

Q. What do you value in general in life, besides your work or accomplishments? What are your true passions?

I value the people that are in my life. Take away my house, take away my car, clothes, gobs and gobs of shoes, take away all those miniscule things and all you have is the people that you love and the people that love you…that’s what I value most in life. I am truly passionate about making people smile and living a righteous life. And I’m passionate about teaching my children all the wonderful things that my great mom taught me. I guess I really just look forward to being a mom….far far from today though!!!

Q. Do you think that pageants will ultimately lose their relevance? How can we keep this from happening?

I hope not…I tell people all the time that I wouldn’t be who I am today had I not had the pageant experience. Sometimes that’s bad, but for the most part it’s good. I think they could lose their relevance if things continue how they are. I’m not sure what the status is, but there’s talk of eliminating Teen all together and eliminating prelims...such a poor choice. Pageants prepare young women for the curve balls that life will throw them. Pageants teach you anything from public speaking to how to walk in heels to how to be organized. There’s so much that goes into competing that some people don’t even realize. We aren’t just pageant girls we are determined, fierce, driven, and won’t take no for an answer type of women. Hence the reason almost all of us continue to come back for more. There’s something to be learned from every single experience. We can continue to keep pageants relative by continuing to prove people wrong about what society says about us. Sometimes there’s a bad apple, but for every bad apple there are thousands of diamonds in the rough.

Q. Finally, tell us all more about yourself, your loves, interests, philosophies.

I love going out to eat, movies, playing in the rain, wearing my hair in a ponytail, my flip flops, sushi, Chanel and Rigby, Parker and Saylor (nephew and niece), running yellow lights, driving with the top down, Elvis Presley, singing in the shower, parmesan cheese, baths, a glass of wine after work…maybe two, Hamburger Helper, The movie The Graduate, sleeping in, vacuuming, getting my hair cut, Sunday brunch, big jewelry, sun dresses, Mexican food, expensive shoes, vintage anything, Ebay, anything having to do with Mark Wahlberg, horses, charging on my credit cards, Coldplay, vacationing, mascara, short nails, and sitting by myself from time to time. My philosophy is that when life gives you lemons you should make lemonade. I always see the glass overflowing with water and try to let things roll off me. It’s hard to anger me and easy to make amends. I’m way too forgiving and will be your best friend as long as you can stand to listen to me whine on occasion.

Finally, this survey has been used on "Inside the Actor's Studio," and I think they are interesting questions:

1. What is your favorite sound?

The fan on full speed…rain, snow, or shine it has to be on.

2. What sound do you like the least?

The sound my dog makes right before she is about to throw up…gross, I know.

3. What word do you love?

Kumquat…it’s a fruit.

4. What word do you dislike?

I hate the word burp…it just sounds so gross even without the disgusting connotation.

5. What career other than your own would you like to attempt?

Acting

6. What job would you hate?

Construction worker or garbage woman…it’s a toss up.

7. If Heaven exists, what would you like to hear when you enter the pearly gates?

I’d like to hear all of my friends and family that have beaten me there welcoming me.

Thanks Allison. I appreciate your friendship mostly because I know the person you are -- compassionate, caring, ambitious, humorous and smart. It is truly a pleasure being your friend!

Pictures of Andria Mullins

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Interview with Andria Mullins

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When and how did you first become interested in pageants?
I began doing pageants at a very young age in the Cinderella Scholarship Program. My mom and her sisters competed with the Cinderella system when they were young as well. From the first pageant I did I knew I loved being a part of the sisterhood I found with the other girls. This particular pageant system was a lot of fun and a great learning experience. It was not like the "kiddie glamour" pageants you see today because we were allowed and expected to be kids, not mini adults. I think it was an amazing place to start my pageant career and most of all I think it helped me to not be so shy as a young girl. I was very proud to end my participation in that system as a Teen International Winner.
Do you remember your first title? What was it and what did that feel like?
The first one I remember was a hometown Fourth of July pageant. The winner got to ride in the parade after the pageant so that is what I was most excited about! The first title that I won in the Miss USA system was Miss Central Texas Teen USA. I remember being so excited to be apart of the pageant and I couldn¡¦t wait to go to TX Teen! In 1997, you won the right to represent Texas at Miss Teen USA.
Tell me about your favorite experiences from that pageant.
Was and will be one of the most memorable years of my life. I remember having so much fun competing that year because it was a chance to see my friends I had made the year before. The gown I had originally picked out for competition was ruined by a seamstress days before I left to compete, so I had to scramble to find another one. After that happened, I decided I was just going to go and have fun with no expectations. I had a blast that weekend and truly loved every minute of competition. The best moment though was hugging my mother at the end of the runway after I won!
Did you feel added pressure by Christie Lee Woods victory the previous year?
Of course I did! Miss Teen USA 1997 was not only in my home state, the previous winner was a Texan beauty! I felt like all eyes were on me watching my every move. I was very proud of Christy though and loved having her there during the competition.
Who was your roommate during the pageant? What do girls talk about when they are not competing?
My roommate was Miss Georgia Teen USA Cheri Wheeler. We had a great time together! I think we were both 16 so we talked about normal teenage girl things. Boys, school, makeup, NERVES! I think we tried to run interview questions with each other every night but we ended up falling asleep.
I know you won the style award? What was that like? And, how did you prepare for winning the style award?
The style award was given by Pantene Pro-V that year and it was awarded to the girl who had a unique, fresh style with "Pantene Pro-V hair". I recall stressing out because all of the girls were fixing their hair in these elaborate styles. I got frustrated, brushed my hair out straight, and then went on stage! I wore a funky black and white Tadashi mini dress that I absolutely loved. It was an honor to take home any award.
I know I felt shocked when they announced the semifinalists and your name was not there. Were you disappointed? Did you expect to hear your name called?
Yes I was extremely disappointed. Any one that has competed at any level knows the extreme amount of heart and soul that goes into preparation. So many people worked so hard to help me prepare so I felt like I let them down when I didn't make the semifinals. This was back in the day when they had a Top 10 NOT A TOP 15!!! I believe that Larissa Meek (Miss MO Teen USA) and I tied for the 10th spot with another semifinalist. In any pageant I never expected to hear my name, but of course you always hope.
Still, you represented Texas beautifully. Are you still in contact with any of the girls from the class of 1997?
Thank you! Yes I am in touch with many of the girls. This past May a group of us had our ten-year reunion at the Bellagio in Las Vegas organized by Vicki Hughes. (Miss NM Teen USA) Most of us had not seen each other in 10 years so I can't even begin to tell you the fun we had! We had a blast catching up, some are now mothers and wives and all are very successful. We stayed for about 4 days dining, shopping and even a little gambling! ;)
What is your favorite memory of Miss Teen USA?
After the two weeks of intense competition and hours of rehearsal, my favorite memory was standing center stage in the dark on final night, in the seconds counting down to the live telecast. This amazing chill came over me and I remember saying to myself, "I will remember this moment forever¨. Then the lights came up, we starting dancing our hearts out and the energy was contagious. I really got what is was all about then. It wasn't about winning or losing. It was about having fun and living in that very special moment that very few have gotten to experience. I had always wanted to be on that stage and it was surreal when I was there.
What advice would you give to young girls competing at the Teen level?
Don't try too hard to grow up. Embrace your youth and have fun being a TEEN! And when it comes to taking advice in the first place--Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it.
What advice would you give to girls transitioning from the Teen level to the Miss level?
I went into the Miss level not even a year after Teen. Looking back I might have waited a couple years. I think teens should take a little time to grow into young women and not rush anything. I know I learned so much about myself the first year of college and living on my own for the first time. I know you competed in other states at the Miss level.
What made you compete in California in New York? And why did you not stay and compete in Texas throughout?
I moved to New York City literally weeks after I graduated from college. I got a last minute job working for MTV at beach house in The Hamptons that year so I just decided to take the leap! Shortly after, I got a job working in local news for UPN 9 in the city and it was clear I was not returning to TX anytime soon. Since I no longer worked, lived, or went to school in Texas, I was ineligible to compete there. I wanted to continue competing so I decided to give NY USA a try. A month before I competed in that pageant, I auditioned for The Starlet while visiting Los Angeles. I found out that I booked the show the night before I left to compete in Albany and had to take a red eye to LA the night of finals. After filming the Starlet in LA I decided it was the right timing and a good move for me to stay, so I moved to Santa Monica and signed with Rising Star Talent. I worked for Wolfgang Puck and spent my time taking acting classes and auditioning for hosting positions. Before I knew it, pageant time was here again so I did Miss California USA! I finally moved back to NYC when I got the job with the Rachael Ray Show and did Miss NY USA for my last year of eligibility. I would have loved to continue competing in Texas but my career moved me elsewhere!
What are the main differences in competing in California and New York vs. Texas?
I think Texas women take pageantry the most serious. The same strong competitors came back year after year so you kind of knew what to expect. (And that was knowing every girl was going to bring their A game!) It was not the same in NY or California. A few would return from year to year but I had no idea what to expect!
What are the quality of the productions in California and New York vs. Texas?
Texas obviously was the best in my opinion. It was by far the biggest production, longest competition and the only pageant televised. NY USA was the biggest in numbers but smallest production. Miss California had a few choreographed numbers but not near as many contestants. I loved the glamour of the TX production and the week of events, but it was also nice to get in and get out with Miss NY USA. I didn't have to take any time off and I was back at work Monday morning! But I must say, I think Texas USA really prepares the winners for what to expect at the national level.
Do you feel that California and New York are equally as competitive as Texas? When it comes down to the basic facts, yes absolutely. In the end it really doesn't matter how many girls or how big the production. I think Texas women are the most beautiful in the world, however, there was much more diversity in NY and California.
I know you competed in the Miss division with Ashley Coleman (former Miss Teen USA) and Gloria Almonte who you were first runner-up to in New York and who was first runner-up at Miss Teen USA. What are these girls like?
I competed with Gloria in 2005 and 2007. We were both very focused and the pageant is so quick, but I enjoyed seeing her and competing with her each time. She is a sweetheart. Gloria and I still keep in touch through Myspace. Ashley and I didn't have a chance to get to know each other but from what I could see she was equally as pleasant.
I know you competed with many former teens from 1997 at the Miss level: Ashley Witmer and Brandi Burkhardt. How was that?
I actually didn't know that I would be competing with them at Miss NY USA 2005 so I was excited when I got there and saw them! They are both exceptional women. Brandi and I kept in touch through email and I think she is acting on a soap opera in LA now. Ashely and I competed twice together at Miss NY USA and we were roommates in Las Vegas for our reunion. She still lives in NYC and we actually have a play date with our Chihuahuas Twinkie and Marty coming up!
Are girls generally nice in pageants, or is there a lot of cattiness?
My experiences have been almost ALL positive. Most everyone is genuine, sweet and smart. I have remained friends with many girls from my ten years of competing. There is an occasional bad apple, but no one really notices them because everyone else is so extraordinary.
What is the worst thing you have seen as a competitor?
Luckily I haven't seen anything too horrible. I have seen a few ladies throw temper tantrums like three year olds but other than that not much!
How did it feel coming so close to the New York crown and not making it? I was 100% ready for whatever happened that night. When I was called first runner-up, a strange feeling came over me. It was at that moment I knew a long and exceptional chapter of my life had been closed and I was relieved. I watched Adriana crown Gloria then congratulated her, took my pictures, hugged my mom and everything was ok. On the train ride back to NYC by myself I kept waiting for this huge rush of emotion and for the tears to start flowing but they never came. (My cheeseburger probably helped too haha) Everything seemed like it had worked out just the way it was supposed to and I was calm. The next morning as I took the first step on the sidewalk on my way to work, a rush of excitement came over me in anticipation of what lies ahead. Of course it was my dream to go to Miss USA and I was disappointed. But sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stoke of luck.
I know you have won other awards within pageants like Miss Photogenic? What awards did you win? I am very proud to have been a semi-finalist or finalist in all three states in addition to:
Miss Texas Teen USA 1997-Swimsuit award
Miss Teen USA 1997-Pantene Pro-V "Teen With Style¨
Miss TX USA 1999- Swimsuit award
Miss NY USA 2005-Miss Photogenic and Style award
Miss California USA 2006-Miss Photogenic
In 2002, you competed for Miss Texas. You competed in a mock-press interview like they did at Miss USA in 1999 and 2000. What is it like answering questions and thinking so quickly on your feet? Is it nerve wracking?
Yes it was very nerve wracking but it was fun! I literally said the first thing that came to my mind. I learned a lot about improvisation in my broadcasting classes so I think that helped a little too.
I loved your quick wit in answering the following: Q: What is the most important thing you learned in Elementary school? A: That glue does not taste very good. Had to throw that in.
LOL
You competed with former Miss Texas titleholders Kandace Kreuger, Nicole O'Brian, Kasi Kelly, Stephanie Guerrero, Tyler Willis, and Lauren Lanning after having competed with them for a number of years. What are these women like? Did you make any close friends with these titleholders?
All of these women are exceptional. I competed with Kandance for the first time in Miss Williamson Co. USA. She has always been an inspiration to me! Nicole and I were roommates the year she won and she and her family were so sweet to me. I was definitely there to cheer her on at Miss USA! I think every one of these ladies epitomizes beauty and class.
What about in general? Who did you become close to while competing?
Mandy Jeffries! I remember meeting her the first year I competed at Miss TX Teen USA and I looked up to her so much! We became good friends when she was Miss Austin USA and I loved competing with her each year. Mandy would have been an amazing Miss TX USA. I also loved all of "Betty's Beauties¨. We would all get together through out the year and see each other. Betty Warner really made us feel like a family. I also got to know Christie Cole throughout the years and I remember being so excited to crown her! She is a beautiful person inside and out. I miss all of my friends from all of the years and I especially miss competing in TX!
How do you prepare for competition?
Preparation for a pageant was something I was always doing year round. I say this because it wasn¡¦t all for a pageant. It was to become a smarter, more intelligent and successful woman. It all went hand in hand. I was always looking for gowns. Sometimes I would try on a hundred¡Ksometimes only one! Throughout the years I had many make-up and hair lessons. I think every woman should be able to do her own hair and makeup the right way. I had several professionals help me too. I worked with Don Baker for many years and he taught me things that have helped my in every aspect of my life. I worked with many personal trainers as well. Most recently was Justin aka "Builtboy¨. He was amazing and we are still very close friends. What is your favorite and least favorite areas of competition? My favorite was interview (both personal and onstage) because it was my chance to let the judges know what I was really about. I enjoyed swimsuit and evening gown as well! You have a chance to strut your stuff and show off all the hard work you have done. My least favorite thing about competition was definitely wearing heels for a ridiculous amount of hours!
You competed in times when interview was a staple of competition rather than being used only at the end of the competition. Do you think they should bring back the interview competition? Why or why not?
Yes I think they should bring back the interview competition. I think that the winner should be a fabulous mix of beauty and brains! I don"t think it needs to be a heavy-duty interview about politics or religion, but we need to see how the girl reacts under extreme pressure. Personal interview is one thing, but being on a stage with lights, cameras and thousands of eyes on you is another. She should be able to get through a couple of questions with ease and poise.
What are your favorite years of competing (taking into account of competing in Texas, California and New York)?
This is impossible to answer. Each year I grew as a woman and learned something new about myself. My mother and I had such a fun time each year preparing and it only got better!
What were your best results as a Miss?
First runner-up at Miss New York USA 2007!
What is your embarrassing moment in pageantry?
I seem to keep asking this question. LOL I can't remember anything as an adult, but I can tell you my most embarrassing moment for my mother. In a Cinderella Pageant during the onstage interview when I was 6 years old, I lifted my dress above my head and screamed that I had to use the restroom. I am sure my mother was mortified but it was funny!
Tell me about "The Starlet"? What made you participate?
On a trip out to Los Angeles I took a few acting classes with a friend. The instructor suggested that I audition for The Starlet so I did! This was my first real audition in LA. I was called back about 3 or 4 times even after I had returned to NY. So the week before Miss NY USA I was flying back and forth auditioning and I finally got it. Only 10 girls were chosen out of 10,000 applicants. I did it because "why not?" You have to take chances in life. It was a new show and it sounded like a lot of fun.
Were you surprised to be let go so early on?
Not at all. The second I got to the house and met all the girls I realized how they cast the show. This was not a pageant. There were 10 of us and we were all VERY different with varying levels of training and experience. I didn't know what to expect and I tried my best. Acting was not and is not my passion. I enjoy doing it sometimes but I never wanted to be an actress. It was an interesting experience and I was pleased to even make it that far.
Why do you think the winner has not had much media attention?
I am not sure. I just don't think the show gained enough popularity. It was only on for 6 episodes. The girl that won was really talented though and so genuine. Andy, the girl who was cut at the same time as me, is probably the most successful actress of everyone who was on the show. She was on an episode of ER last season and has several running stand up comedy shows in LA!
What made you audition for Rachael Ray?
I actually had to interview for my position at Rachael Ray. I started my career in local news and quickly realized I wanted to work for a national television show. I work in the Audience department at The Rachael Ray Show and I absolutely LOVE my job! Sometimes I have to pinch myself on set because I can't believe I am there! If you are ever in New York and want to see the show let me know!
How fun is Rachael? She looks like she would be fun to work with.
Rachael is astonishing. She has to be one of the hardest working women in the business! I don't know how she does it but she always keeps everyone laughing on set.
Why did you choose to work with a chef rather than working for a different talk show like The View?
In television, you work where you can get a job, THEN network and move your way up or to another show. TV is very hard to get into and I am very fortunate to be working on such a successful show. I also worked for Ellen DeGeneres when she brought her show to NY last year. That woman is hysterical! I would love to work for The View or Regis and Kelly in the future, but Rachael Ray keeps us well fed. Everything she makes on the show gets put out after for the staff to eat! YUM-O!
What would you like to see yourself doing in the future?
Right now I am enjoying working behind the scenes and I am learning a lot. In the future I want to be a producer on a show similar to Rachael Ray. In LA I did a little bit of on-air work as a host and I would love to continue working in front of the camera. Ultimately I aspire to produce and be the star of my own show.
Finally, what advice would you impart on girls competing at the Miss level?
I would have to say to listen to your heart above all else and do what feels right. If you feel like moving on then do it, if not then keep trying! I was lucky enough to enjoy each and every year of competition. Don't get too caught up in what other people are saying about you. Figure out who really matters and listen to those people only. Also, I heard this saying once and it stuck with me "Don't waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes your behind. The race is long, but in the end, it is only with yourself."

Photos of Alexis Young

2007-06-19T07:40:00.000-07:00

Interview with Alexis Young

2007-06-19T07:27:00.000-07:00

Alexis Young, Fourth Runner-Up to Miss Texas USA in 2007, has agreed to interview for the Miss Texas USA Beauty Shop board. The interview and the pictures shared in this chat are owned by Alexis Young and by the board moderators and can not be replicated without permission.

Also, thank to 2Cents and LubbockGirl for help with interview questions.
First of all, Hi Alexis! And, thank you for interviewing with us!

You know, everyone wants to hear about your stint on “The Bachelor”! Did you think the show portrayed you in a fair light? Do you think Andy gave you a fair chance? Yes, I think I was portrayed fairly. Of course, due to the nature of the show, they could not show all aspects of my personality. I knew that going into it, so I chose to err on the side of being more reserved, because we all know how much the media loves to play up any "indiscretions" of a pageant girl!

Who was your favorite “bachelorette”? What did you think of Tessa (the winner)?
I’ve become great friends with so many of them. In fact, about 13 of us are meeting for a little “reunion” weekend in a few weeks. I talk to Amanda, Erin, Peyton, Amber and Tiffany W. often. I also really liked Bevin. She was so fun while we were at the house. So I really don’t have a favorite! Tessa was awesome. One of the funniest moments from the show was when she was re-enacting her infamous “muffin joke” one day when we were all hanging out in the kitchen – she is hilarious!

How is your love life now? (LOL) Haha, it’s pretty much the same as before the show. I think that a common misconception about the show is that the girls go on their to “find a date” or “find their husband.” When, in reality, we all just saw it as a once in a lifetime chance to experience something unique and exciting. In fact, I actually had to put my “love life” on hold for the show, because we signed these contracts that forbid us from dating for a month prior to the taping of the show, until the day that our elimination show aired. So that was kind of annoying!

When did you first start competing in pageants, and what was your inspiration to do so? The first pageant I competed in was the Miss Dallas America preliminary during January of 2000. To be perfectly honest, I had just broken up with my first college boyfriend, and of course, thought my life was over, so my mother found the pageant and suggested I enter in an effort to take my mind off of it. So, I grabbed my prom dress, bought this little dress for interview from J.C. Penney’s, and showed up at the pageant a week later. I remember that I actually used my piano music during the talent competition because I didn’t memorize it! I was so intimidated; in fact, Morgan Matlock was placed next to me in the dressing room and I remember being in awe of how prepared and poised she was. I definitely felt out of place!

What made you want to compete for Texas USA after so many years in the Texas America system? Though I definitely gained so much from my years of competing in Texas America, I never quite felt that I fit the image that they seemed to promote back then. Of course, things have changed since then, but back during the years I competed the preferred style was a bit more … okay, I’ll just say it, “matronly.” Also, I’ll be the first to admit that I struggled with talent. I would always hear these girls gush about how much they loved performing their talent, and I would be sitting their thinking how much I dreaded it! And yet, I would score well in evening gown and swimsuit. I’d always been curious about the Texas USA pageant, so instead of competing in the MAO during my last year of eligibility, I decided to give it a shot.

What did you like about the Texas USA system as opposed to the Texas America system, and vice versa? The main thing that I liked about the Texas USA system was that I felt I could express my individual style. Whereas during my days at Texas America, I always felt like I was trying to fit into this “mold.” The one thing I liked about the Texas America system over Texas USA, was that there seemed to be less of an emphasis on physical beauty. The Texas USA system can definitely cause one to develop insecurities. For example, I remember that I used to smile with the biggest goofy grin ever, and then after I competed in my first USA preliminary, I heard about how my gums showed too much. I became very self-conscious about it! I really enjoyed my years competing in both systems however.

Was there a difference in preparation for Texas USA versus Texas America, and if so, how? The major difference is that you don’t have to worry about talent (which is nice!). Another thing is that the swimsuits are provided at Texas USA, so that removes another element of stress. Other than that, the preparation is basically the same.

What advice do you have for a contestant that is switching systems? I see a lot of girls who try too hard to fit the “glamorous USA image.” I think that I went overboard the first year that I competed at Texas USA. I had this image in my head of what Miss USA is supposed to look like, and I just did “too much” – overdid the modeling, got too skinny, concocted a gown that pushed the limits, etc. My second year I relaxed and focused on trying to be more confident and graceful onstage, as opposed to forcing myself into this preconceived image. I would tell the girls to remember that quiet, understated confidence transcends both systems.

Was there a difference in personalities of competitors? Judges? Not really. The judges are just people, and the same qualities that impressed the judges in the MAO will impress the judges in USA. I believe they are looking for the girl who is truly comfortable with herself. The competitors were pretty much the same too.

Besides talent, what would you say is the biggest difference between the two systems? Well, the production numbers at Texas USA are certainly more involved than in Texas MAO. And anyone who knows me will tell you that I don’t exactly have the most rhythm, but I tried my hardest to make it work!

How do you feel about Miss America losing its sponsorship to telecast the pageant? Do you feel the pageant is outdated? No, I don’t feel the pageant is outdated. I think the problem came back during the nineties when the pageant started to fiddle too much with the tried and true format that had existed for years. The thing is, it doesn’t matter how much they try to remove the focus from the “beauty” aspect of the pageant, the critics will never be satisfied. And in the process of trying to appease the skeptics, they alienated those who loved the pageant just the way it was. It was a classic case of trying to serve two masters. The appeal of a pageant is the mystical fantasy, the glamour, and the fact that it is different than anything we typically see on a day-to-day basis. There is no reason to try to make it mainstream or keep up with the times, because then it loses that which makes it special. I think that the MAO finally realized that people just want to see a beauty pageant, and have tried to bring back the glamour over the past two years. Hopefully it won’t be too little too late.

What do you say to those people who think that pageants are sexist and set the women's movement back? I think that the glossy magazines, cosmetically altered models, and Hollywood movies do infinitely more harm to the “women’s movement” - by propagating the idea that a woman’s value only comes from her looks - than some pageant. Women have been judged based on their physical appearance since the beginning of time. I don’t agree with it whatsoever, and it makes me angry, but that is just how it is. The presence or absence of a pageant is not going to change it one bit.

How do you prepare physically for pageants? And how do you prepare mentally?
Generally, about 6 weeks before the pageant I would start working out 4-5 times a week. My workouts consisted of a short cardio session to warm me up (about 10 minutes walking on a treadmill set to the highest incline), then 30-45 minutes of weight training. For diet, I would just try to focus on natural, healthy foods (fruits, veggies, lean protein, good fats, whole grains), and limit the desserts and processed foods. Mentally, I would try to keep up with the news, do mock interview sessions, and try to keep my spirits up.

How did it feel making the top 5 your first year at Miss Texas USA? I couldn’t believe it! I didn’t expect to make it at all. I think that is why I kind of froze up during my final question. You have no IDEA how much I beat myself up over that dreadful answer I gave! In fact, the only thing going through my mind was “abandon ship, this answer is going nowhere fast!” – of course, you could probably see that written all over my horrified face.

Which phase of the competition do you enjoy the most? Which phase is the most difficult? I liked all phases! Really!

How do you go about picking a gown to compete in? I vividly remember a conversation I overheard during my first pageant, where a girl was talking about the “great deal” she found on this pageant gown for $1,000. Of course, I stood there in abject horror that anyone would spend that much on a dress … a viewpoint that would rapidly change! Haha! The first couple of years that I competed, I modeled for Claire’s Collection, so I purchased my first few gowns from them. The first gown I purchased right off the rack, and made no alterations. But after a few years I, like most girls, desired something a little different, so I began changing up the styles (changing the neckline, beading, train, color, etc.).

I hear that you often are instrumental in designing your gown. What is that process like? And, how involved are you into the making of the gown? Yes, pretty soon I began changing so many things about the gowns that I thought, well, why don’t I just design it myself! So I just started sketching different designs. Then I would find a basic pattern from the fabric store that I would adjust to fit my design. Then I would order the fabric and other necessary items, generally off the internet. The most ambitious (or some would say, weird) adornment that I ever chose for a gown was my first year at Miss Texas USA. For some reason I fell in love with this gown that Miss Venezuela wore in the 2000 Miss Universe Pageant. But, even after tracking down the designer of her gown (who never returned my calls) I could not figure out what the shiny clear stuff was on her gown. So, after spending countless hours scouring the internet and every possible store, I finally settled on clear window film from Home Depot. Yes, I know, it was strange. Looking back on it, perhaps that dress was a little “out there.” But I just had my mind set on it!

My mother and I did the sewing. She is definitely the better seamstress, and she ended up doing the majority of the tricky sewing, while I did most of the beadwork and easier sewing. The process was very much trial-and-error, with tons of fittings, and more than a few tears! I definitely could not have done it without my mom – she is amazing!

How did it feel competing against some of your former MAO contestants on a different stage? It was fun. It was nice to already have a little camaraderie with the girls that I already knew, and I felt that we were supportive of each other.

Are you friends with many of the girls you have competed against in the past? If so, who are you closest to? I am! You know what, I started to type out some names, but then I realized that I had gotten to know so many great girls, that I didn’t even want to name names because I am afraid I would leave someone out! I really made it a point last year to try to get to know as many of the girls as possible – it made the week a lot more fun!

What about cattiness in pageants? Have you ever run across wit jealous or mean-spirited girls? If so, how did you handle this situation? In my opinion, the cattiness is born from insecurity. In fact, the girls that seem to come across as “stuck up” are generally the ones who are the most insecure themselves. I handled it by making a point to get to know these girls who everyone said were mean. 99% of the time I found they were just quiet, and were in fact really sweet. If ever I came across someone who was truly not nice to be around, I would just keep my distance. You don’t want to surround yourself with negativity.

How was the camaraderie amongst the delegates? I thought it was great. Everyone seemed to help each other. Girls were lending each other jewelry and shoes all the time.

I asked Cassy Meyer Russell this same question. Do you have a most embarrassing moment in competing? I’ve racked my brain to try to think of something, but (fortunately) I can’t think of anything!

Is winning everything? What will you take from your experiences? Winning is definitely nice, but far from everything. I will take from my experiences many friendships, special time with my mother while making my gowns, increased confidence, and lovely memories.

You are very down to earth. How do you think you and other girls defy the standard stereotypes about pageant girls? Well thank you! I think that most “pageant girls” are down to earth. I just tried to be myself, have fun, not take the pageant too seriously, and remain focused on my career and education.

Do you think there should be a cap on age limit? What about being married? Do you think that pageants should lift this ban? I’m fine with the cap and the ban on being married. I think that there are certain times in your life when it is probably best to move on and focus on other things.

What type of law do you practice? How does your pageant background integrate into your practice? I do commercial litigation, as well as some trademark work. My pageant background doesn’t really play a role in my practice. Though, I know that all the interviews and public speaking opportunities have made me more confidence in the courtroom. And for that I am thankful.

How do you juggle being a "pageant girl" in a corporate setting? I don’t; I stopped being a pageant girl once I started my job. :)

What are your plans now that you have aged out of both systems? I am just focusing on my career and enjoying living in Dallas. I also enjoy working with girls who are still competing.

What would you like to say to the girls competing this year? Just relax! The week of Miss Texas USA is grueling: emotionally and physically. So, first of all, sleep! Personally, I think it’s nonsense to set your alarm for 4:30 a.m. to go work out (and you know that most of the time you just end up snoozing it anyways!). The week is physically exhausting enough, and the calories you burn during your workout will not make up for the decrease in your mental and physical stamina resulting from lack of sleep. Second, try your hardest not to check out your competition. You know what I’m talking about … the furtive glances at the other girls during rehearsal and arrival, checking out who is in shape, who is not, who got extensions, who looks cute, who looked cuter last year... . All this will do is play with your mind and diminish your confidence. The single biggest difference between my first year of competing versus my last year was that I finally learned this lesson. I know it sounds cliché, but once you get to Miss Texas, it really is all about focusing on yourself. I would like to echo Cassie by saying to stay upbeat, always have a smile on your face, and be confident! (or at least try to look like you are! Haha) The thing is, 100% of the girls there are fighting insecurity – I promise – even the top five girls! So, if you can be confident and secure with yourself, you are already so far ahead of the game. Though, I will add one caveat. If you haven’t put in the necessary time and effort into preparing (i.e. working out, making sure your gown is just right), then it’s going to be hard to feel good about yourself. So, right now is the time to do those 4:30 a.m. workouts! You (or your parents) are spending an obscene amount of money and time to be in Laredo, so put your all into it and leave no stone unturned!

We want to thank you for taking the time to answer our questions. You are an inspiration to others. Best of luck in all you do!

Photos of Cassandra (Meyer) Russell

2007-06-19T07:17:00.001-07:00

Interview with Cassandra Meyer

2007-06-18T15:32:00.000-07:00

Cassandra Meyer, First Runner-Up to Tyler Willis at Miss Texas USA, and former Miss San Antonio USA as interviewed with SanFranGuy for the Texas Beauty Shop. This is an exclusive interview for http://www.voy.com/210461/The information in this interview is solely owned by this board and may not be copied elsewhere without the permission of myself (SanFranGuy) or Cassandra Meyer. Credits will also be noted where necessary.

First of all, congratulations on your new marriage, even if I wanted to see you compete for Miss Texas USA this year! Thank you!

How did you first come to love pageants? Did you compete in any pageants as a teen or little girl? If so, what titles did you win? I have always enjoyed pageantry. Although I never competed as a young child or teen, I vividly remember watching pageants on television with my mom. I always hoped to be in a pageant but never gave it much thought until college. I was surfing the Internet one day and came across the Miss Texas USA website. I filled out the application (not really knowing what I was filling out) and before I knew it, I was visiting with the Brazos Valley directors at A&M. I was told the San Antonio pageant had already happened for that year, so I was able to go at-large as Miss Brazos Valley USA. I entered my very first pageant, Miss Texas USA 2002 that summer and loved it! I had no idea how much was involved in a pageant. Simply thinking, I thought I would grab my old prom dress from the year before and go! Thankfully, my directors stopped that idea. I had a team of wonderful, committed ladies that helped me. I owe my start in pageantry to them. In 2003, I began competing in my hometown at the Miss San Antonio USA pageant where I met another group of wonderful people dedicated to helping women achieve their dreams. I feel privileged to have work with the best in the industry from College Station, to Houston and to San Antonio. I took advice from each person I met. I believe that helped me become well-rounded as a contestant.

Why did you choose the USA system over Miss America? I always enjoyed watching both pageant systems on television, but felt I was a better fit for Miss USA. I played the piano for about five years when I was younger, however I believed my talents were not up to par for Miss America.

Now, tell me what it was like to be among the final two at Miss Texas? Were you nervous? (Duh!) Did you expect to go so far? It was amazing to be one of the last two contestants standing at such a large and prestigious pageant as Miss Texas USA. Every girl entering the pageant hopes to win, but realistically, I had hoped to make it past the swimsuit competition. That was my main goal that year. When I made the top five I was THRILLED! Live television happens very fast, and the next thing I knew, Dan O'Rourke was asking me about being an Aggie, and my relation to Calvin Coolidge. Then, it was down to two! I was elated and overcome by it all. It was a neat feeling to know all eyes were on us which made the moment even more suspenseful.

How was Tyler Willis? She is a lovely, sweet woman and we have stayed in touch over the years. Although I wanted to be Miss Texas USA, I was genuinely happy for her and thought she would do a good job. (And she did!)

How nerve wracking is it to compete? What goes through your head as each girl is called into the top 20, the top 10, the top 5? It is very nerve wracking waiting to hear the announcement of each cut. The year I was first runner-up, I was the last to be called in each category. I always breathed a sigh of relief every time, but I honestly felt bad for my family and friends watching. I think it was more painful for them! (Jokes) As the announcements are being made, I would always keep listening for my name and/or title. I never realized who had made the top 20,10, 5, until we exited backstage between commercial breaks. I think it is important to stay focused on your performance.

What was your most embarrassing experience in competing? Thankfully, nothing too embarrassing happened to me on-stage. My most embarrassing moment related to pageants was my very first appearance as Miss San Antonio USA. I was with Miss San Antonio Teen USA and our appearance coordinator at San Antonio's Oyster Bake. When we arrived, I went into a restroom to pin my crown to my head (This was my first time wearing the crown since that night at the pageant). I was armed with bobbie pins and all sorts of hair clips. I finally got the crown attached to my head, walked out of the building and down a flight of stairs into the mingling crowd outside. In front of everyone, the expander in my crown slides, and the crown falls from my head to around my neck. Everyone was staring and started laughing!

What goes into your preparation for the title? How was your fitness conceived? How do you choose a gown, hair, make-up, earrings and such? Every year I decided to compete at Miss Texas USA, I gave it my all. I always took advantage of what my directors, sponsors and coaches had to offer. They all supported me and I thank them very much for that. To maintain physical fitness, I made sure to workout and stay on a consistent schedule. For gown, I would take my mom with me to the store. She has an amazing sense of style and I value her opinion. I always chose gowns that I believed were classic and elegant. My belief was to find a gown that I loved and the rest (hair, make-up, etc.) would fall into place.

Which phase of the competition is the hardest for you? Which was the easiest, and why? The swimsuit competition is always hardest for me. There is something about being in high heels and a bathing suit that is challenging. Once I got out there and did it, I always wanted to go back out and do it again and again. When I won the Everything But Water swimsuit award at Miss Texas USA 2006, that was an accomplishment for me. I don't know if any part of the pageant comes easy, but I do enjoy the interview competition. I earned a Master of Arts in Communications so I enjoy speaking in-front of large audiences. I'm also very passionate about my causes.

After coming so close to the title, how was it preparing over again for Miss Texas USA? Was it a letdown? Did it make things more difficult? It was hard mentally coming back to Miss Texas USA the year after I was first runner-up. I had to wipe the slate clean in my head and remind myself that it was a new year, new pageant, new judges. I had a list of things I wanted to improve on such as becoming stronger physically, fine tuning hair/make-up techniques, modeling, and gown selection. I felt I achieved them. Overall, being first runner-up made me work harder than I ever had before. At Miss Texas USA 2006, I was thrilled to win the swimsuit award and happy with another top five placement because it showed consistency in my performance. However, it was disappointing to place 3rd runner-up when I felt I was at my best.

What were the other girls like in the competition? I hear that there are always a few girls who are catty and mean-spirited. Did you experience any of this? Most of the contestants were nice and I am still friends with several today. I personally never had any bad experiences at Miss Texas USA. Often, you could catch a girl giving another girl a jealous look, but that was about the extent of it. One time, I had a contestant come up behind me and run her fingers through my hair. She asked if I had hair extensions, and I told her I did not. I found it funny that she had to check it out on her own. I did hear once that a girl had her swimsuit stolen on pre-liminary night. Another contestant was kind of enough to let her borrow her swimsuit. Believe it or not, most of the contestants are nice ladies.

Who did you enjoy the most among the competitors? That's hard to say. I have met a lot of really nice, genuine girls. I remember my first year at Miss Texas, I didn't bring another outfit to change into after rehearsing in our opening number dresses. A girl from Denton had brought an extra dress and let me borrow it for the day. I will always remember that. Tyler Willis was also very sweet. I had the opportunity to be around her a lot the year she won. That made it all the better when it came down to the two of us that night.

What is it like walking in heels in swim suit and down staircases? Can you really prepare for something like that? It is tricky! I always made sure to buy shoes that I knew I could walk in. When you enter Miss Texas USA, always be prepared to walk down staircases on stage. As for walking in high heels during swimsuit, the idea is absurd, but I love the result you get wearing heels. They make your calf muscles pop even more! My advice is to practice in your shoes the moment you receive them, and put gripper pads on the bottom of your shoes. They help immensely! (I guess Miss USA forgot hers?!)

What are your highlights in competing? Which year did you feel was your best performance and why? Was is due to placement, preparation, or just an overall feeling? I enjoyed every year I competed at Miss Texas USA. Let's see....I enjoyed Miss Texas USA '02 because I was selected for the dress rehearsal. Since I was not selected for the top 12 on finals, I had the chance to see what it was like to be in the competition. It was great! My family still laughs about that pageant, because my dad got more air-time that I did. The camera pans right to him after we finish the opening number (laughs). I didn't compete at Miss Texas USA '03. I took a year off to focus on school, save up money and come back ready to win! I placed in the top 16 at Miss Texas USA '04 as Miss Alamo City USA which was exciting (also my favorite opening number routine. I was on the go-go pad with Christie Woods that year). Miss Texas USA '05 was the year I was first runner-up. I loved that year because of my placement. I felt my best year was Miss Texas USA '06 when I competed as Miss South Central Texas. Although I went down in placement from the previous year, I felt I had improved. Last year, I also felt improvement from the previous year, but sadly only made the semi-finals. That was difficult after putting in so much time and commitment. It made me realize it was time to end my journey at Miss Texas USA.

Now, are you planning on doing anything else in pageantry now that you are no longer competing? How has competing at Miss Texas USA carried over in other areas of your life, if any? I believe their will always be a piece of pageantry in everything that I do, even if I never compete again. I must say that pageants helped me transform from a shy teenager into a confident, strong woman. The skills I learned throughout the whole process help me everyday. I'm not planning to compete in a Mrs. pageant anytime soon. I need to practice being a good wife first! I think it would be fun to be a pageant consultant.

I hear you are becoming an actress. How is that coming along. What kind of work would you like to do in this field? Yes! I'm pursuing television work in southern California. It is a blast and I am enjoying every moment. My goal is to host or star in a national show someday. And, who would you most like to work with? In broadcasting, I would love to work with Barbara Walters or Diane Sawyer.

How do you feel about Tara-gate? Do you see a lot of this behavior in other contestants? Unfortunately, their are some girls that do behave like Tara outside of the pageant. I wish the judges could see that during interview. It is a shame because it hurts the reputation of pageants.

Do you believe that Tara Conner deserved a second chance? No. Their were 50 other contestants that wanted her title. I can only hope that she learned something from the whole experience and will grow from it.

You know, I always say that Miss Texas USA is Miss USA, because the quality of contestants could win other state titles in nearly most states. Did you ever consider competing in another state system? That is nice of you to say, and I agree. Miss Texas USA is very competitive. In the back of my mind, the idea was there to go to another state, just because I wanted the opportunity to compete at Miss USA (and win!). However, I am a true Texan and could not imagine representing any other state.

Finally, you will always be a legend in Miss Texas USA. Are you happy with your experiences? And, are you happy in your life now? Thank you. Yes, I am very happy with my pageant experiences. I wish I could have been Miss Texas USA, because that was a dream of mine. Being a titleholder has more impact to a crowd when speaking on a cause than just the average person. I wanted to use the title to stop drinking and driving and promote breast cancer awareness. These causes will always be dear to my heart. However, the skills I learned, and the friendships I made will last a lifetime. For that, I am grateful for the five years I put into the system. Yes, I am happy with my life now. I married my high school sweetheart in November 2006 after being together almost seven years. We have a great life together in California and I am excited about my career.

And advice you would like to impart on girls competing this year? And will you be able to come to the pageant? I wish everyone the best of luck at Miss Texas USA! Unfortunately, I will not be able to attend the pageant, but my family said they would tape and mail it to me. My advice to the contestants before they leave: keep working out, get plenty of rest, find a gown you love, (and shoes you can walk in), read your contestant handbook, and take advantage of any training you can - whether it be from your directors or coaches. Once you arrive enjoy every moment! Be positive, confident and have a great time!

Any final thoughts you would like to add? I want to thank everyone for their support. Now that I know about this message board, I will try to visit as much as I can. Good luck to all of this year's contestants and to our new Miss Texas USA! Make us proud at Miss USA! Thanks Cassandra for taking the time out to answer our questions. You are one class act! You are welcome and thank you!

SanFranGuy would like to credit Meemaw for the format of the questions.Cassandra graciously shared these photos from her personal collection for this interview. Please do not reproduce them without permission from her.